They say, 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." I'd say, "True beauty is defined by how someone perceive him/herself.' What makes someone beautiful is based on how they see themselves, because no matter how many times you tell how they look good on something they wear; how glamorous they look on a certain picture; how you look up to them as an icon of beauty; or how many times you tell them how beautiful they are, if they see themselves otherwise, your compliments are practically useless.
When I see someone confident, I mean, who are confident with themselves and does not let other people define the standards of what it takes to be beautiful in the eyes of the society, it makes me appreciate them more. Beauty, in my own point of view is not defined my merely LOOKS and MATERIAL THINGS, but by the attitude and values of a certain person. It's not about whether people view you as someone beautiful because you are fair skinned; or whether because you have the latest brands of make-up; or whether you own a room full of designer clothes; nor because you have a 36-24-36 figure that guys go for--- but it's about how you feel about yourself that makes you beautiful.
Because physical beauty won't last forever. In due time, pictures will fade, your skin will get wrinkled, clothes won't fit you anymore, people will forget how you looked in your younger years, but if you learn right now how to feel good about yourself, no matter how many years pass, your perspective wouldn't be affected as to how the society thinks a beautiful person should look like.
When you feel good about yourself, everything about you changes. Trust me. :)
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